This morning, as I read through 1 Chronicles, I came across a passage I’ve read and studied multiple times before, outlining the story of the return of the Ark of the Covenant to Jerusalem. Some of the details I remembered were missing from the 1 Chronicles version, so I flipped back to 2 Samuel to check out the other version.
“So David went down and brought up the ark of God from the house of Obed-Edom to the City of David with rejoicing . . . David, wearing a linen ephod, danced before the Lord with all his might . . . As the ark of the Lord was entering the City of David, Michael daughter of Saul (David’s wife) watched from a window. And when she saw King David leaping and dancing before the Lord, she despised him in her heart.” –2 Samuel 6:12-16
I’ve never understood why Michal hated David for dancing before the Lord. Bringing back the ark was a huge spiritual success for David and the Israelites. Everyone with David was singing, shouting, and dancing. And as his wife, wouldn’t she want to share in his joy rather than turn up her nose at it?
Apparently not. My Bible’s footnotes explain that “Michal had no appreciation for the significance of the event and deeply resented David’s public display as unworthy of the dignity of a king.”
The bottom line: she just didn’t get it.
As I contemplated these verses over a cup of coffee and chocolate buttermilk pie, memories of times in my life when those around me “just didn’t get it” trickled in.
I remembered attending three different churches over the course of a decade and going to ministry fairs hosted by each church. Each time, the churches sponsored a booth with a suggestion box and encouraged members to write down their specific spiritual gifts and talents if they hadn’t found a group, committee, or activity that seemed like a good fit. Each time, I wrote down, “I love to dance, and I feel it’s a gift God’s given me. I’d love to use that gift in some way.”
I never got a single response to that request. Dancing in a traditional, often Fundamentalist denomination, wasn’t really considered acceptable. Maybe to some, it would be considered “public display unworthy of the dignity of a Christian,” to paraphrase my Bible’s footnotes on Michal’s perspective on David’s dancing.
I recalled another moment in a church service, in one of these same churches, when the hymn Stand Up, Stand Up for Jesus began playing. I had just returned from China and had felt the heavy spiritual oppression surrounding me for three weeks. I’d come to value freedom of expression in a way I’d never valued it before. It seemed only natural to physically stand in reverence to God now that I had the option to do so.
The minute I stood up, in the middle of several rows of pews, I believe colossal drops of sweat began to drip from the music minister’s face. I received multiple stares, and if my memory serves me correctly, the folks’ faces weren’t exactly reflecting support, encouragement, or brotherly love. Apparently I’d rocked the boat a little too much that morning and missed the memo outlining specific “don’t stand up during the Stand Up for Jesus song” instructions.
I recollected a time when I read a book about a native Indian man who proposed that if Americans truly want to assist in spreading God’s word to other people, their money may be better spent supporting native missionaries rather than foreign missionaries since native missionaries require much less financial backing; they’re already used to living in poverty-stricken places and can get by on much less. This book moved me and opened my eyes to a new way of thinking about things. I shared the book with my then-boyfriend. He read it, and when I asked him what he thought of it, he said, “I thought it was cute.”
Cute? A book about changing the world? His response brought tears to my eyes.
I reminisced about moments when I’d felt compelled to make choices based on my beliefs. I’ve walked away from movies and television shows, leaving friends confused over why I’d be offended at the content. I’ve tried to explain to people why I’m moved to tears over others’ addictions holding them back from the Light. I’ve given money and items to people–some whose names I don’t even know–when spurred by a strong, quiet voice instructing me to do so. I’ve visited and called and emailed friends to express my concern over something God revealed to me about their lives or current situations–each time, I really knew nothing about what was really going on; God just kept telling me to say something to them. So I did.
Acting on my spiritual gut feels pretty ridiculous sometimes. It’s often not dignified. It may involve making incredibly unpopular choices. It incites disgust, anger, and confusion.
But I can’t stop doing it.
I can’t stop dancing before the Lord with all my might when I know that’s exactly what He wants.
And I won’t worry about the Michals of the world who, sadly, may never get it.
6 thoughts on “Getting it”
I remember once upon a time when you and I were highland dancers entertaining others (i think you were the better looking of the duo in a kilt). I knew people in school who didn’t believe in dancing because they had a carrot up a certain orface yet they were cheerleaders in school. I love to dance, and dancing has gained me somewhat of a local celebrity status with my rain dance that got widely popular over the summer. I also did a pledge dance for AETN/PBS for a pledge drive when one of the on-air talent, Tony Brooks, got wind of my rain dance. So, at the impromptu request of his, I closed their pledge drive dancing and making a complete fool of myself, which i’m quite good at. One of the nice ladies volunteering at the food bank told me,”God has blessed you with the gift of dancing.” And i told her,”I’m not so sure if it’s a blessing, but i’ll go with that lol!” I also love the just dance and dance central games on kinect because they’re not only a lot of fun, but they burn tons of calories and teach you cool dance moves (where i learned the rain dance from). And for those pwondering at home – I am a straight man.
I remember that, Henry! I hope you will keep on dancing, too.
I remember at a ladies’ meeting at Bethesda one night, you got up and danced a little jig and then said that you thought it was your spiritual gift, but hadn’t quite figured out how to use it at FBC.
Don’t worry, some people just find it hard to sing “Standing on the Promises”, while sitting on the premises.
Thanks Brenda! I don’t remember that specific moment, but there were lots of them like that. I am grateful I’ve found a church whose God box doesn’t seem to have the same stiff walls and inflexible corners. And grateful for the people God’s placed in my life (like you) who do get it–and get me.